To generalise, I essentially agree with what the other TERFs say but apply the points to themselves - e.g. - “i’m a trans woman but I realise I am not *actually* a woman…”, “i’m a man so women have every right to not want me in their spaces.”
There is also of a lot of transmedicalism among some older trans people who essentially say you’re not trans until you go the whole hog with hormones and surgery despite these being inaccessible for many that want them, or undesirably invasive or unsuitable for others who decide they don’t want them.
Finally, and I think this is the most similar to self-hating homophobia, are the trans people who blame other trans people for “asking for too much”, “shoving it on people’s faces”, “taking things too far” or “making it silly” … these people commonly don’t believe people can be non-binary, for example.